Chances

Do you still believe in Love? Maybe Feelings? Or perhaps Soul mates? ...

I do...

It seems full of BS but its there, it exist. But you gotta admit people aren't feeling it. Instead, letting the computer do it for them. You probably are thinking...what are you talking about? computer??? If you must know, many actually rely on such thing to find that person now a days. The 'right guy' or 'right girl' --- no BS, it's 100% true.

Many people are sick of looking for the 'right' person because it always seems to end up terrible. They end up miserable, hurt, betrayed when they thought they found the perfect person for them. Instead, to put their faith in technology.

Let's get to the point...

Not all of us are in the same page, but I'm at the page where I still believe that someday you'll find that person, the right person. The person who will treat you right... It might take forever to find that 'right' person and you might have to go through so many jerks, assholes, fucking cheaters or whatever...you name it. But in the end, after having to go through those rough times of searching...will be worth it. The search for that person who'll treat you right, the treatment you deserve as a person, who has a heart and feelings, who are fragile and easily be broken if not well taken care of...you know???

Chances, it's always worth it taking chances in finding that right person in your life. Maybe in between finding that right person, you may have crappy relationships...Dane Cook would say "Relationshit!" but the point is those crappy relationship, those miserable times teaches you to be tough, a learning experience that will lead you even more to the right person you are looking for...you know? Experiences that will help you, us how to have a better relationship, with any kind of relationship. Whether its friendship, marriage, or relationship with your parents, etc.

Chances lead us to them in the end and ends up beautiful...

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I can write more to prove my point though i think you got the idea...but its just my opinion. What's yours?

- Norman M. -

I Miss Those Days With You.

I miss those days by the lake,
Where we hung out like our first date.
Hah, Love the way you smile, *smiling*
Walking ahead of me looking back once in a while.
It's so cute the way you turn around to look at me,
With those very pretty eyes that always gets me.

Sitting in that picnic blanket,
Waiting for that great and amazing sunset.
Looking at that beautiful view,
There's no better way to spend time with you.
The way you look at me and the way I look at you,
You know our feelings are pure and true.

Sometimes when you're talking,
I get those times where I loose track of what you're saying.
*Your voice slightly fades, slightly slow motion movements*
Nodding, listening to what you're saying but not hearing,
All to do with those moments...cherishing.
'cause I gotta admit girl,
You're so beautiful, you make world go whirl.

You always know my favorite feeling,
Where you come close onto me and leaning.
Holding hands while walking,
Not caring what's the crowd thinking.
Hah, We're like one of those couple, *smiling*
Where to everyone we're amatuers and just a trouble.

Hah, funny thing is we really are, *smiling*
The great part is that trouble got us this far.
Playing Truth or Dare...you always Dare,
Once you Dare, you never play fair.
You always make me do the craziest thing,
Which I always ended up doing...-__-

I miss the way you make everything as simple as possible,
Comparing to others that makes it complicated, impossible.
Understand and view the world as it should be,
You look at it simple and easy.
I learned a lot of things from you,
How to handle things, to go through.

I miss the feeling of being with you,
'cause I'm pretty sure I could do the impossible when I'm with you.
I was pretty sure I could fly,
Like the birds passing by.
You gave hope when hope seems lost,
You were present when needed the most.

I miss those days...
I could tell them anytime, anyplace.
The past, the memory,
Reminisce...thinking under a tree.
Looking forward, viewing the mountains afar,
Wishing the impossible, thinking that far.

- Norman M. -

Do you Know Who You Are?

Chameleon...do you not think that we as people can relate to other animals like chameleons, perhaps? We, as people of the world are, in a sense, a lot like chameleons that always blend in their surroundings in order to survive. Like a chameleon, we always do our best to blend in our surroundings, the environment, or our society, that we state in for survival and fulfillment reasons.

Here are some questions...

When was the last time you met a person that is..."real" or "legit" you'd say, perhaps? When was the last time you met a person that knows who they really are? I'm pretty sure that many agrees and disagrees that it's hard to find a "real" or "legit" type of a person. Or, the person that know who he/she is... Well of course, except for your best friend. But even your best friend can be deceiving, due to the fact that they have the power to deceive you.

Each and every individual wants to fit in certain group(s) that they desire to be apart of. Perhaps, let's use High School life as an example. In High School, teenagers reaches the part of their life where social life and acceptance become, in a sense, more important. This is where things become very interesting(and sad but true) and if you are still currently in High School or have been in High School, or even remember your High School years. You'd likely understand what I'm talking about.

As you may already know, many teenagers goes far for social acceptance. There are those "bad cool people, good cool people, bad losers, good losers, the weirds, the freaks, etc..." I could go on and on but you get the idea...high school.:)

Let's say the teenagers that wants to fit in the "bad cool people" group because they think it's "bad ass" and would make them "popular." Those teens usually do things that they don't normally do or do things that are demoralizing. Like for example, a student(a guy) may pull a fire alarm because he was dared to do so by his new friends that are "cool" and "popular." Or, dared to pull down some "nerdy and a total loser" student's pants and humiliating that person in from of the entire class, or perhaps in front of the entire students in the cafeteria. These do happen...maybe not in your school but maybe other schools. Let's go to High School girl's "part..."

Many girls are more into the social acceptance thing comparing to guys. Many girls go far beyond what is necessary. I'm pretty sure you've met those types of girls during your High School years or even currently. Some girls goes as far as preferring the "cool pretty girls" friends than their real caring friends. Or prefer being with the "popular" girls that gets it "in" and/or the "popular" girls that every girls would want to be like. Also, girls do things that they don't normally do so that they'd be accepted by the "popular" and "hot" guys that are total douches I'd say. I'd be assuming the you already got the idea of what they might be...

I could go on and on, on the things that we do as individuals to survive in our surroundings, environment, or our society. It may be at school, work; with people like family, friends and neighbors, etc... We try to blend in for survival and fulfillment reasons just like a chameleon.

Be real,choose carefully and choose right:)

Ask this to yourself one day, "Who am I?"

It's the simplest question you could ask yourself but the hardest to answer. What do you think?

p.s.

   Chameleons never successfully blend completely and so do humans. Those are our failures... hahaha!


- Norman M. -